By David Thurin

How I Got Flexible? A Step-by-Step Guide to Becoming More Flexible



Ever glanced at someone nailing a perfect split and thought, “I wish I could do that”? Well, friend, your wish is more attainable than you might think!

Unlocking your flexibility isn’t about performing mysterious or complicated rituals. It’s simpler, and in this post, we’re walking through the initial yet crucial steps of starting your flexibility journey together.

Grab your comfy pants; it’s about to get stretchy!

Starting Your Flexibility Journey

1. Picking a Skill

Starting your flexibility journey? First off, pick a skill. Just one. I know it might be tempting to master all the flexibility skills at once but trust me, focusing on one skill at a time is the way to go. Here’s why:

  • Focus: Pouring all your energy into one skill means you’ll progress faster. Trying to do it all often leads to doing none of it well. Ever tried multitasking and found yourself on the brink of a meltdown? Exactly. One skill at a time, pal.
  • Simplicity: One skill means less confusion and a clearer path. You’ll quickly figure out which stretches help most, turning your practice sessions efficient and straightforward.

2. The Secret to Retaining Flexibility

You might think flexibility is elusive, slipping through your fingers the moment you miss a stretch session. But here’s a little secret: it doesn’t work like that. Flexibility isn’t a use-it-or-lose-it deal. Once you’ve earned it, it sticks around longer than you’d expect. And the perks? Check these out:

  • Improved posture
  • Enhanced physical performance
  • Lower risk of injuries
  • A delightful sense of well-being and freedom within your body

Not too shabby for some stretching, right?


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Beginning the Flexibility Workout

1. Effective Warm-Ups

Alright, let’s jump right in! First on the agenda is warming up, which is non-negotiable, my friend. Warming up preps your body, making the ensuing stretches smooth and, more importantly, safe.

  • Dynamic Stretches: Dynamic stretches are your go-to. These are active movements where your joints and muscles go through a full range of motion. They help increase blood flow and improve your flexibility. Think leg swings, arm circles, and lunges. These moves aren’t just for show; they’re setting the stage for a fruitful flexibility workout.
  • Hot Shower Alternative: If you’re pressed for time or not in the mood for a full warm-up session, hop into a hot shower. The heat helps loosen up your muscles, providing a similar effect to dynamic stretching. It’s a quick and relaxing way to prep your body for the stretching masterpiece to follow.

2. Breaking Down Your Skill

Let’s take the example of mastering the front split – a flexibility classic. The stars of this show are your hamstrings and hip flexors. To grace the flexibility stage with a jaw-dropping front split, these muscles need to be limber and ready for action.

Hamstring Stretches

  • Seated Stretch: Sit with one leg stretched out and the other folded in. Reach toward the toes of your extended leg while keeping your back straight. Hold for 30 seconds, then switch legs.
  • Standing Stretch: Stand and extend one leg straight on a slightly raised surface. Bend forward from your hips, reaching for your toes. Hold, then switch.

Hip Flexor Stretches

  • Lunge Stretch: Start in a lunge position with one foot forward. Lower your hips until you feel a stretch in the hip flexors of your back leg. Hold and then switch.
  • Seated Stretch: Sit on the floor with one leg bent at the knee and the other extended back. Lean forward slightly, feeling a stretch in the hip of the extended leg.

Repeat each stretch for about 30 seconds, doing three sets for each leg. It’s like a workout but with stretches, see? Consistency is your best buddy here. With time, you’ll notice those hamstrings and hip flexors loosening up, bringing that glorious front split within reach.

Structuring Your Flexibility Routine

Treating Stretching Like a Workout

Okay, let’s get one thing straight – stretching is not a lazy Sunday activity. To see real, tangible results, you need to treat it with the same respect and commitment as your regular workouts. How, you ask?

  • Session Duration: Ideally, dedicate at least 15 to 30 minutes solely to stretching. If you can afford more time, that’s fantastic, but a consistent, focused 15-minute session daily can work wonders over time.
  • Structure Matters: Like a traditional workout, your stretching session should have a structure. Begin with a warm-up, followed by targeted stretches, and conclude with a cool-down. This systematic approach not only enhances the effectiveness of stretching but also makes it a sustainable and enjoyable routine.

Disclaimer: This is fitness advice. Please consult with your doctor before starting any new training routines.

Consistent Practice Yields Results

Now, you might not turn into a human rubber band overnight (and honestly, who would want that?), but with regular, committed practice, you will see improvement. Here’s a gentle nudge of encouragement for you:

  • Persistence is Key: Consistency trumps intensity. Stretching a little every day is far more effective than an hour-long session once a week. Make it a habit, weave it into your daily routine, and watch the magic unfold.
  • Applicable to Any Skill: And guess what? This isn’t just for those aiming for splits. Whether it’s touching your toes or reaching for the sky, the principles remain the same. Commit to the process and practice regularly, and your body will learn to move in ways you never thought possible.

So, what's holding you back? Roll out that yoga mat, and let's get stretching. Your future, more flexible self will thank you!


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Closing Thoughts

Embarking on your flexibility journey is simpler than it seems! Pick a skill, warm up, and start stretching those specific muscle groups.

Treat your stretching with the diligence of a workout, staying consistent to ensure steady progress. These straightforward principles apply to any flexibility goal you have.

Remember, it’s not about being the best but improving steadily. So, why wait? Start today, embrace a flexible lifestyle, and unlock a world of effortless movement. Stay flexy!